Ach, waarom zou ik hier een treurig waargebeurd verhaal gaan schrijven als Wendy dat al voor me heeft gedaan.
…. he has his new own home… Which is very nice off course, I so envy him…
And goes about his own way. Alone. Something he isnt happy about. He spends his days walking around with a smile on his face, that isnt reall. And very hard to keep up. Trying to make people believe everything is allright. ….
No matter who you meet in life someone always leaves their mark on you.
Those you have around you, devine you in a way. The way you deal with people, their actions and reactions slowly make you into the person you become eventually.
For a few years… That is untill two years ago, I had a friend. One who I thought was my best friend, who knew everything about me. One I shared all my secrets with, and always knew what I was thinking. Unfortunatly, everytime, she got a lover, she would loose me, because everytime, she thought that her lover deserved all of her, and then there was no room in her life for other people then him. This happend 3 times, over the course of a 5 year long friendship.
Little did I know at that point in time, that all of the things she told me, were with a few exceptions, all lies… She needed the attention. Whenever she felt she didnt get any, she would create a story, to get herself attention.
I, on my part however, was stupid enough to trust her, and bring her into my own circle of friends at that time… A small cirlce, for it consisted only of 2 other male friends… and me… I felt obliged to bring her along, seeing as how I was spending more time with them, then with her.
I never forsaw any problems… That is untill I started dating one of those to guys, and the other fell in love with her. That feeling was not mutual… Not by far… But the guy in question, was someone who had a good job, with… the most important detail in this story, a very good and steady income…
So, she felt that, if he was so deeply in love with her, he could spend his money on her… And so it went. She would call him for anything and everything. He would pay everything. Food, drinks, sigarettes, alcohol… He would drive us anywhere she wanted to go… But always the four of us… She never wanted to be alone, for she thought, that if he had the chance, he would grab her…
Which in all reasonable thinking, quite ridiculous… He would not harm a flie… Let alone do something to a woman, against her will and wishes.
On two occasions, she saw his interest in her decline… She knew that if he lost it completely, she would loose her most convenient source of income… So, she again drew his attention by starting to kiss him. Making him hopefull and happy, that she was starting to like him.
Poor guy lost everything.. His home, his car, his job… All because of her… Well, honestly, we all had our part in it… But she did cause the most damage..
At the end, we all had a big fight. I lost my boyfriend at the time, also due to her meddling influance… He seduced him, and in an angry drunken rage, yelled I could go to hell, because he only loved her…
We lost track of one another. The men couldnt stand eachother anymore… And never spoke to oneanother again.
And she? She started dating, my ex boyfriends little brother.
Now, after 2 years she again sought contact, with both me, and the guy she so used for her own means… To get what she wanted, to go where she wanted, who paid for whatever she wanted.
Now, she play the part of the little girl, who feels o so guilty about everything that has happend in the past.Thinking everything will be allright if she takes her part of the blame in the whole story of what happend between the four of us… Little did she know, I still had a form of contact with both the guys. All be it not the same kind of contact, but we were on speaking terms… And thus she spoke her plan to me…
She figured, if she would kiss them again.. They would forgive her… And that she would from then on, have 2 new sources of income… Very conveniently forgetting, she has a boyfriend now, for more then a year tho whom she is engaged to be married next year…
Allthough dont pin me down on an exact year, for it keeps changing every single year.
The guys in this story… Well… One continues to play darts, drinks a lot, and lives his merry life…
The other? Well… He now, has a very well running business. Working long days. Has his new own home… Which is very nice off course, I so envy him…
And goes about his own way. Alone. Something he isnt happy about. He spends his days walking around with a smile on his face, that isnt reall. And very hard to keep up. Trying to make people believe everything is allright.
The so-called friend in all of this… Well… Lets say, that in a few years or say, when I get enough money together… I will place a bounty on her head.
For all she did to me, and my friends.
Fair enough, I had my share… So did we all… But we never ever treated on of us, this badly. Or take advantage of eachother, only to hurt them in the end.
Her days of lies and causing pain are over… A lot of people now know the truth about her. In learning her true identity, she lost a lot of friends, and she now is trying to get in touch with her old friends… Hoping to save her own hide. Hoping we will again fall for her stories.
I am awake now. I just hope others will soon do the same.